Im a beautiful red head blessed with a smokin body.but im getting dumped for these ugly shinny asian women?

My ex husband of 4 years left me for a Philippino.shortly after that i cought my last boy freind in my own bed with another asian.Then just last night some freinds & i finally hooked upwith some bikers just so we could get laid .We stepted out to use the laidies room came back and i'll be dambed if ther wasn't a bunch of asian'women all over them.Dont get me wrong im not a raceist.I just want to know what it is that men see in them??I have seen a few that are really pretty.But what is it that all men see in them?Do they have some thing that us American women dont????